KD HOLMES, MS, LPC, EMDR CERTIFIED

Anxiety

Deep brain reorienting

4 min read

When EMDR Isn’t Enough: How DBR Reaches the Places Words Can’t

If you’ve ever had EMDR therapy for adult trauma processing and felt the strange relief of something shifting inside you-without having to walk back...

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Venn Diagram of success, female experience, and mental health

6 min read

Navigating Success Through the Lens of Women’s Mental Health

In today’s fast-paced and often unrelenting world-where success is measured by tangible achievements and milestones-it’s essential to center an...

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Cycle of a goal, anxiety, compulsive over achieving, followed by relief

10 min read

Achievement Pressure: What’s So Wrong With Being an Overachiever?

One of the fundamental pillars of my therapeutic approach focuses on adults who find themselves entangled in the intricate web of anxiety and...

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picture of a person overcoming trauma represented by a gorilla

5 min read

How to Overcome Trauma: Strategies for Healing

Trauma changes the brain, leaving a lasting imprint on a person’s mental and emotional well-being. It doesn’t simply live in the past as a distant...

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KDH Counseling | Anxiety | Adventure

5 min read

Adventures in Anxiety Treatment

Have you ever buried a dream so deeply that you’ve forgotten it was there at all? A dream that once felt so unattainable that even allowing yourself...

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KDH Counseling | Chronic Illness | Therapy

4 min read

It's No Use Going Back to Yesterday I Was a Different Person Then

Many people seek therapy because they feel blocked in some way-like reaching a steep cliff where the road suddenly ends and there’s no bridge in...

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KDH Counseling Holiday Stress

5 min read

Mental Health and the Holidays

Surviving the Holiday Stress (a.k.a. the Zombie Apocalypse) isn’t just a catchy phrase—it’s a real reflection of how the season can feel for many...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Social Anxiety

6 min read

Did you know...I have Social Anxiety!

Many of my clients are often surprised to discover that I had social anxiety. Watching my videos or listening to me speak, you'd probably never guess...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Overachieving Anxiety Help

5 min read

How Did I Change My Own Overachieving Anxiety?

I wish I could say that a moment of profound inner wisdom led me to recognize the need to rein in my overachieving tendencies and gracefully begin...

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Overachieving Therapy

6 min read

How Can I Stop Overachieving?

Overachieving is a complex web of perfectionistic behaviors, personality traits, mental health challenges, personal history, and social influences....

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