KD HOLMES, MS, LPC, EMDR CERTIFIED

Anxiety

Cycle of a goal, anxiety, compulsive over achieving, followed by relief

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Achievement Pressure: What’s So Wrong With Being an Overachiever?

One of the core pillars of my therapeutic approach centers on adults who are caught in cycles of anxiety and depression driven by achievement...

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KDH Counseling | Anxiety | Adventure

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Adventures in Anxiety Treatment

Have you ever buried a dream so deeply that you’ve forgotten it was there at all? A dream that once felt so unattainable that even allowing yourself...

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KDH Counseling | Chronic Illness | Therapy

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It's No Use Going Back to Yesterday I Was a Different Person Then

Many people seek therapy because they feel blocked in some way-like reaching a steep cliff where the road suddenly ends and there’s no bridge in...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Social Anxiety

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Did you know...I have Social Anxiety!

Many of my clients are often surprised to discover that I had social anxiety disorder. Watching my videos or listening to me speak, you'd probably...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Overachieving Anxiety Help

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How Did I Change My Own Overachieving Anxiety?

I wish I could say that a moment of profound inner wisdom led me to recognize the need to rein in my overachieving tendencies and gracefully begin...

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Overachieving Therapy

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How Can I Stop Overachieving?

Overachieving is a complex web of behaviors, personality traits, mental health challenges, personal history, and social influences. Stopping...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Overachieving

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My Story of Perfectionism and Burnout

Overachieving is made up of emotional urges, ingrained habits, and an incredible amount of lost time. I was constantly driven by the need to achieve,...

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Overachieving cycle

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Perfectionism Burnout: Why Always Achieving Stops Working?

This specific type of anxiety and depression can be particularly challenging to address because it feels intertwined with what many overachievers...

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Image of KD when she was a child looking exuberant

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Why Am I so Anxious?

I’ve been called “nervous” for as long as I can remember. Even as a child, the label stuck. Looking back now, I can see how early experiences like...

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KDH explanation of mental health picture

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The Enigma of Mental Health?

Therapy is a space where people seek clarity, change, and deeper understanding of mental health concerns. These challenges often show up as...

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