KD HOLMES, MS, LPC, EMDR CERTIFIED

Trauma

Image of CPTSD and problems associated with it

6 min read

Complex PTSD: When Trauma Is How Your Body Learned to Survive

Many new people come into my office asking the same question: Why am I not getting better? For many people, the missing piece is complex PTSD vs...

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Deep brain reorienting

4 min read

When EMDR Isn’t Enough: How DBR Reaches the Places Words Can’t

If you’ve ever had EMDR therapy for adult trauma processing and felt the strange relief of something shifting inside you-without having to walk back...

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image of working with a therapist

7 min read

Working With KD: A Thoughtful Therapy Experience

Clients often describe me as gentle, approachable, easy to talk to, and even a little silly. And while those qualities matter, the therapy experience...

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picture of a person overcoming trauma represented by a gorilla

5 min read

How to Overcome Trauma: Strategies for Healing

Trauma changes the brain, leaving a lasting imprint on a person’s mental and emotional well-being. It doesn’t simply live in the past as a distant...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Social Anxiety

6 min read

Did you know...I have Social Anxiety!

Many of my clients are often surprised to discover that I had social anxiety. Watching my videos or listening to me speak, you'd probably never guess...

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Overachieving cycle

5 min read

Perfectionism Burnout: Why Always Achieving Stops Working?

This specific type of anxiety and depression can be particularly challenging to address because it feels intertwined with what many overachievers...

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Grief and The loss of a Parent

4 min read

.....And Just Like That, He Was Gone

As I am filled with shock ( the first stage of grief), it's hard to imagine that a man that looked like this, could die. I don’t think anything can...

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Trauma mental health image

6 min read

What is Trauma Therapy?

What is trauma? Many people unknowingly live with what I often call “trauma brain.” It’s an invisible force shaping their reactions, emotions, and...

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KDH explanation of mental health picture

7 min read

The Enigma of Mental Health?

Therapy is a space where people seek clarity, change, and deeper understanding of mental health concerns. These challenges often show up as...

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a man climbing out of whole

6 min read

How Do I Climb Out of My Depressive Hole?

What is therapy for Depression? The common words “coping” can feel so clinical, can't it? Yet, depression, in all its shades and complexities, truly...

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