KD HOLMES, MS, LPC, EMDR CERTIFIED

Deep brain reorienting

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When EMDR Isn’t Enough: How DBR Reaches the Places Words Can’t

If you’ve ever had EMDR therapy and felt the strange relief of something shifting inside you—without having to walk back through every painful detail—you know this: change doesn’t always happen in words. Sometimes it starts in the way your breath...

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image of collage of woman with images of love in her head and uncertainty

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When Love Feels Like a Question: Healing from Relationship OCD

There’s a kind of love that doesn’t bloom gently-it twists in your chest, tight and unrelenting. It’s not love’s absence that hurts, but the constant...

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When Perfection Feels Like Survival: "Just Right" OCD

Do you often think or feel something’s off." not dangerous, not dirty-just... wrong. The book isn’t crooked, but it isn’t straight enough. The...

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OCD image of contamination obsessions

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When Clean Doesn’t Feel Clean:  Changing Contamination OCD Through ERP

There’s a kind of fear that hides in the ordinary. A doorknob. A grocery cart. The memory of a word. Contamination OCD is not about being tidy-it’s...

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Image of scrupulosity OCD

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When Certainty Becomes a Cage: Religious OCD (Scrupulosity) and ERP Treatment

There’s a particular pain that comes not from sin itself, but from the fear of it. A weariness that settles into the bones, not from wrongdoing, but...

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Harm OCD image of disturbing thoughts

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Understanding Harm OCD and Finding Your Way Back to Yourself

Some fears arrive like thunderstorms-loud, visible, and unmistakable. Others creep in quietly, like fog-unwelcome, disorienting, and hard to explain....

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POCD image is a woman with kids in her mind

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The Fear No One Talks About: Understanding Pedophilia OCD Through ERP

There is a particular kind of suffering that lives within people with POCD-a heavy, choking, and insessient nagging of what ifs. If these sufferers...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Somantics

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Can the Body Treat the Mind?

Conventionally, most people understand the concept of how our bodies operate. The brain, as the central processor, conjures up the command for an...

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Neurodivergent brain with a heart in the middle

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The Fundamentals of Mental Health: ADHD, Autism & Sensory Differences

After 48 years and countless therapists, I've come to challenge the traditional narratives surrounding mental health. Therapy often begins with...

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Venn Diagram of success, female experience, and mental health

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NAVIGATING SUCCESS, MENTAL HEALTH AND THE FEMALE EXPERIENCE

In today's fast pace and often unrelenting world, where success is measured through tangible achievements and milestones, it is imperative to focus...

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