KD HOLMES, MS, LPC, EMDR CERTIFIED

Overachieving Therapy

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How Can I Stop "OVER" Achieving?

Overachieving is a complex web of behaviors, personality traits, mental health challenges, historical influences, and social interactions. It’s not something you can untangle easily or address overnight. Like a maze, it has twists and turns that...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Overachieving

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My Story Through OverAchieving

Overachieving is comprised of emotional urges, habits, and so much lost time. I was constantly consumed by the urge to achieve, while outwardly it...

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KD Holmes, LPC on Overachieving

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Why Would I Want to Change My Overachieving?

This specific type of anxiety and depression can be particularly challenging to address because it feels intertwined with what many overachievers...

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Holiday's Stress

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Laughing and Crying Through the Holidays

The holiday season can be a magical time filled with laughter, joy, and cherished traditions. However, beneath the surface of all the joy and...

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Image of KD when she was a child looking exuberant

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Why Am I so Nervous?

I’ve been called "nervous" for as long as I can remember. Even as a child, the label stuck. Looking back, I’d venture to guess that the large doses...

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KDH Counseling and COVID 19 and Trauma

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Is COVID-19 A Traumatic Event?

The COVID-19 world crisis can be traumatic, especially since it has impacted the entire globe. The terror, powerlessness, and shock can leave us with...

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KD Holmes, LPC Crisis Counseling

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How Does Therapy Address Crisis: COVID-19

So much of my practice centers around anxiety, trauma, phobias, panic disorder, obsessions, compulsions, and unhealthy coping patterns related to...

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Learning to Love Roller Coasters | KD Holmes LPC

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Learning to Love Roller Coasters

Recently, I relearned the concept of inhibitory learning, and once again, it reshaped the way I view certain challenges. There’s something...

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Grief and The loss of a Parent

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.....And Just Like That, He Was Gone

Shock It's hard to imagine that a man that looked like this, could die. I don’t think anything can prepare you for the death of a parent. Whether...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Trauma

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What is Trauma Brain?

Many people unknowingly live with what I call "Trauma Brain." It’s an invisible force driving their actions, emotions, and even physical symptoms,...

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