KD HOLMES, LPC, EMDR CERTIFIED, BTTI TRAINED

KD Holmes, LPC has been a therapist for 16 years working with anxiety disorders, phobias, OCD, and trauma.

KD Holmes, MS, LPC on Intrusive thoughts and ERP

6 min read

What is Intrusive Thinking?

Have you ever had a thought that keeps popping into your head, uninvited and unwelcome? These thoughts can manifest as disturbing images, unsettling phrases, or even visceral feelings that disrupt otherwise peaceful moments. What's important to...

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Habituation illustration

5 min read

The Skinny on Treating OCD: Habituation & ILM

I began working with individuals who have OCD about 10 to 12 years ago. My journey into understanding OCD began in my graduate program, where I was...

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OCD Cycle Image- Obsessions-Anxiety-Compulsions-Relief-Repeat

3 min read

Are You Lost in Your Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Brain?

Many of the individuals I work with (myself included) are plagued by an obsessive brain. Obsessive brains are repetitive and stuck, living in a...

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KD and father on a boat

8 min read

Lean into It!

It’s been a long time since I had an adventure. I have been consumed by my day-to-day responsibilities of my relationship, work, family. I try to fit...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Social Anxiety

6 min read

Did you know...I have Social Anxiety!

Many of my clients are often surprised to discover that I experience social anxiety. Watching my videos or listening to me speak, you'd probably...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Overachieving Anxiety Help

5 min read

How Did I Change My Own Overachieving Anxiety?

I wish I could say that a moment of profound inner wisdom led me to recognize the need to rein in my overachieving tendencies and gracefully begin...

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Overachieving Therapy

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How Can I Stop "OVER" Achieving?

Overachieving is a complex web of behaviors, personality traits, mental health challenges, historical influences, and social interactions. It’s not...

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KD Holmes, LPC and Overachieving

5 min read

My Story of Perfectionism and Burnout

Overachieving is comprised of emotional urges, habits, and so much lost time. I was constantly consumed by the urge to achieve, while outwardly it...

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KD Holmes, LPC on Overachieving

5 min read

Why Would I Want to Change Always Achieving ?

This specific type of anxiety and depression can be particularly challenging to address because it feels intertwined with what many overachievers...

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Holiday's Stress

6 min read

Laughing and Crying Through the Holidays

The holiday season can be a magical time filled with laughter, joy, and cherished traditions. However, beneath the surface of all the joy and...

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